Being disabled does NOT make me a burden to my partner. Being disabled does NOT make me a burden to anyone. It doesn’t make any disabled or chronically ill person a burden at all. Ever. A few weeks ago BBC Ouch shared a podcast interview with some people with disabled partners. The discussion between the…
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Love Island and Why I’m Glad I Don’t Have To Date in Modern Society
Similar to last year, I’m very much hooked on Love Island. I’m a total reality TV junkie; it’s not even a guilty pleasure of mine, it’s purely pleasure and I fucking love it. Tell me it’s staged, tell me it’s shit, I don’t really care, I still watch it and I’ll no doubt forever be…
My First Love, The Ableist
Content Warning: Sex, ableism I’ve been pondering about writing this post for a while and although I’ve wanted to get it out there, I was also really wary about reliving this period of my life as it wasn’t the best. At the time, I thought it was perfect, I believed it was how relationships went…
5 Things To Stay Happy
I want to focus on the positives in today’s post. When I’m suffering badly with my mental health, it’s very easy for me to dwell in negativity, so I thought I’d make a list of my top five things that help me when I’m having a bad day. Maybe it’ll inspire some of you and…
My Relationship isn’t 50/50
This doesn’t bother me in a way that I’m fixated upon it, but it is something in the back of my mind; especially with regards to how outsiders view things. My relationship with my boyfriend, Ian, isn’t 50/50, it’s not equal. What I mean is, he does absolutely everything. It seems like his whole being is consumed…
Things I’m Thankful For This Year
Happy New Year! I hope you all had a great 2015 and 2016 is even better. Sending all the positive vibes. I thought I’d kick off 2016 by listing a few things that I’m thankful for. Ian – My boyfriend is my bearded best friend and I’m extremely grateful for everything he does for me….
Happy 30th Birthday, Mr Martin
Dedicating this post to my boyfriend, Ian, who turns 30 today. Happy Birthday, I love you <3 I thought I’d post some of my favourite pictures of us, so here we go… Aren’t we cute? Have an amazing day, mwah <3
Goin’ to the Chapel: We Attended a Wedding
Bank Holiday weekend was busy. We attended a wedding on Saturday and my friend, Natalie’s birthday party on Sunday.The wedding was my boyfriend’s cousin, Louise and her now husband Steve. They’ve been together 30 years and married on Louise’s Mum’s 70th Birthday, so it was a double celebration.The wedding took place in a little village…