*Disclaimer: Don’t take these cures seriously Disabled/chronically ill/mentally ill people are constantly bombarded by unsolicited, unwanted advice on our health. We can be talking about absolutely anything, not mention our condition and someone will pipe up with a ‘but have you tried…?’ There will always be someone that has never heard of your condition miraculously…
Category: back pain
How Aren’t You in Pain?
As I lie here with my left knee heavily braced, the pain surging through my whole leg, pulsating, agonising, my mind begins to wander. I only ever voiced this a few months ago and as soon as I said it out loud, I realised how ridiculous it might sound to someone who doesn’t know me….
Medication Made Me Say It
I’ve said quite a few hilarious things when I’ve been slightly off my face on prescription drugs. This is completely different to my Brain Fog series, because brain fog happens on the daily, and here I’ll be sharing silly things I’ve said/done when I’ve taken really strong medication and the effects it has on my…
Putting Yourself First – Self Care
Self care is so important for everyone, whether you’re a Spoonie or not. But if you are chronically ill, it’s even more important to put yourself and your needs first. It’s not selfish, it’s being kind to yourself. Taking care of yourself is not a new thing but it is something we need to be…
Chronic Illness and Feeling Like a Burden
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, about my life, my contribution, the burden my chronic illness has on my loved ones. I know I’m not the only person suffering from a chronic condition that feels this way but since it’s been on my mind, I thought I’d discuss it. Of course my partner…
20 Things Not to Say/Do to Someone in a Wheelchair
As a wheelchair user I’ve experienced quite a varied reaction from the able-bodied public, so I thought I’d share a few things that you shouldn’t say or do to those of us that use wheels.1. ‘I’m only parking here for five minutes.’– No, you’re really not, it’s a disabled bay, you don’t have a permit,…